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Body Positivity & Diet Culture in the World of the Winter Arc
Years ago, Martha shared her thoughts on breaking free from diet culture on her blog. Now, at 25, married, and embracing a bigger body, she revisits the conversation with fresh insight. In this updated post, Martha explores the growing discourse around 'wellness' as diet culture in disguise and discusses how to recognize and avoid harmful patterns on the journey to health or weight loss.
It’s Getting Colder
A tender portrayal of love's fragility, Claire reflects on the quiet erosion of connection amidst the changing seasons.
How Can I Survive?
May explores the struggle between personal desires and societal expectations, capturing the feeling of being stuck—unable to move forward or leave an unfulfilling place. The poem reflects the pressures of being in your twenties and not quite having life figured out.
Deconstructing the Default Character
Deconstructing the Default Character” explores how we start life as blank slates—our personalities shaped by parents, society, and external influences. As we grow, the journey to uncovering our authentic selves can feel daunting, but it’s essential. This article offers insight on breaking free from the “person you’ve always been,” learning to trust your decisions, and building values that reflect who you truly are.
Turning 25 and Letting Go of Timelines
Zoe reflects on the pressure to meet life’s milestones by a certain age and how turning 25 has allowed her to let go of rigid timelines. She embraces the freedom of uncertainty, celebrating growth, change, and the exciting unknown ahead.
The Anti-Office Butt Plan
A humorous glimpse into office culture and the unspoken phenomenon of the "Secretary Spread"—the all-too-real effect of sitting at a desk for hours. From historical tidbits about office chairs and Victorian bustles to laugh-out-loud personal anecdotes, it’s a witty take on balancing work, fitness goals, and life with an overly pampered pup named Marley.
Holiday Gift Guide ‘24
Get ready to shop the best of the season with Zoe’s handpicked holiday gift guide! From cozy essentials to chic splurges, many items are on sale—so don’t wait to grab these festive deals!
Primordial Soup
Inspired by the term primordial soup coined by the Dear Hank and John podcast, Primordial Soup by Samantha Piver is a beautiful exploration of finding love in your 20s—the existential crisis era.
That Time of Year Again
Let’s talk about seasonal depression—because it’s real, it’s frustrating, and it doesn’t pair well with the dreaded time change. Dive into the emotional rollercoaster of shorter days, longer nights, and how the lack of sunlight can affect your mood.
Living in the Color of Thangs
Finding the music in life, no matter the season, enjoying every part of the journey, recognizing each moment’s necessity, and staying grounded and rooted in the essence of who you are.
The Forgotten Gift.
A tender reflection on living in the moment, appreciating what and where you are now.
I May Not Know Who I Am But I Know Who I’m Not
An exploration of how discovering what doesn’t resonate with us can be just as transformative as uncovering what does. It delves into the distinct feelings of wrongness and rightness, reflecting on why declaring something "right" often feels more daunting than identifying what's "wrong." Inspired by Sylvia Plath’s fig tree metaphor, it wrestles with the existential question: Am I on the wrong path?
The Boyfriend Badge
This article challenges the societal view that having a boyfriend in your twenties is a marker of success. It reflects on how relationships are often seen as achievements, yet personal experience reveals that having a boyfriend didn't align with the idealized portrayals on social media. The piece explores the reasons behind this collective mindset and the pressure to define success through romance.
I Took a Podcast Class for a $150 Stipend
A search for 'third places' sparked a unique podcast collaboration between a Boomer, Millennial, and Gen Zer, offering fresh insights into dating perspectives across generations.
Why Can’t I Figure It Out?
A recent college graduate reflects on the uncertainty of post-college life, job rejections, and the pressure of societal timelines while learning to embrace self-compassion.
Finding Comfort in Grief: Understanding Longing Through Andrew Garfield
In his conversation on the Modern Love podcast, Andrew Garfield’s poignant words about grief reveal a deeper understanding of longing, urging us to cherish the love we have, even in the face of impermanence.
Play the Game, Make the Rules
A retelling of a time when everything unraveled—graduating, losing a job, getting dumped, and moving back home. After unhealthy coping, a journey to 'find oneself' led to the realization that growth comes from controlling how we face obstacles and choose our next steps.
The Art of Doing Things Alone
Embrace the freedom of solo experiences, from watching movies to attending concerts alone. Learn how one person's college journey boosted their confidence in enjoying life independently and why stepping out solo can lead to unexpected connections and personal growth.
The Summer I Got Laid Off
Casey shares a personal reflection on an unexpected summer marked by a layoff. Despite the emotional rollercoaster of being let go—from the shock of seeing the HR meeting invite to the tears over a forgotten lunch—Casey shares how she has been coping with the experience.
No One Has It Figured Out
Navigating life's uncertainties, especially in your twenties, can be daunting due to societal pressures and career expectations. Reflecting on personal experiences and changing career paths, it's clear that feeling lost is universal. Life's unpredictability means we'll always be figuring things out, and that's okay. Embrace the journey, explore, and learn, knowing that a fulfilling life is about more than just career success.