Deconstructing the Default Character” explores how we start life as blank slates—our personalities shaped by parents, society, and external influences. As we grow, the journey to uncovering our authentic selves can feel daunting, but it’s essential. This article offers insight on breaking free from the “person you’ve always been,” learning to trust your decisions, and building values that reflect who you truly are.

A retelling of a time when everything unraveled—graduating, losing a job, getting dumped, and moving back home. After unhealthy coping, a journey to 'find oneself' led to the realization that growth comes from controlling how we face obstacles and choose our next steps.